Autumn in Asia

What 4 Years in Cambodia Taught Me About Enough

After living in Siem Reap for about four years, the speaker experienced a subtle but significant shift in their mindset. Previously, their life back home was driven by a constant pursuit of more: more work, more money, better possessions, and continuous upgrades. This mindset, while seemingly normal within that environment, created an endless cycle where even when things were good, there was always a push to achieve the "next level." The speaker likens this realization to a frog in a frying pan, unaware of being cooked until it jumps out and sees its former situation with clarity. This awareness became particularly evident when returning to the States, observing how many people seemed programmed by societal expectations and constant advertising, often without realizing it. Upon moving to Siem Reap, the initial change was minimal, with the speaker still viewing it primarily as a cheap place to live. However, over time, a different reality began to emerge. The speaker started observing the local people—those running food stalls, tuk-tuk drivers, and families simply enjoying their evenings together. These individuals, despite having significantly less materially, appeared to live an easier, happier life, laughing more and enjoying each other's company without the constant rush or desire for the next thing. This stark contrast led the speaker to question their own long-held beliefs: "Have I been aiming at the wrong target all my life?"