Pourquoi la plupart des relations humaines échouent ?

The complexity of relationships often arises after a certain point, whether between friends, partners, or spouses. While relationships offer sweetness, they also bring bitterness. Modern society often equates relationships with body-based connections, primarily between a man and a woman. However, relationships can be diverse. Body-based relationships, in particular, tend to lose their initial excitement over time as the physical attraction fades. When the main draw that brought people together dissipates, individuals may become disagreeable towards each other. This is because such relationships often aim to extract sweetness or joy from the other person. When the expected results diminish, bitterness can emerge. It's crucial, especially as one gets older, to shift the perspective on relationships. Instead of focusing on extracting joy from others, relationships should be based on expressing one's own joy. To achieve this, one must become joyful by their own nature, becoming an exuberant outpouring of joy. If a relationship is about sharing this innate joy, the typical relational struggles can be avoided. Daily life involves many interactions, and people in a relationship will inevitably step on each other's toes over small things, leading to altercations. Managing these daily interactions can be challenging. The best approach is to manage oneself to become a naturally exuberant and joyful being. When relationships are not based on needs, but on this self-generated joy, they become less prone to demands, complaints, and bitterness. If you eliminate the need for others to fulfill you and instead become a natural outpouring of joy, you can cultivate fabulous relationships with all kinds of people, regardless of their nature. The goal is to have the most beautiful relationships in your life.