Brett Dev

How Divorced Men Blow Up Their Lives Twice in Thailand

Every year, approximately one million men in the West experience divorce, and a notable number of them relocate to Thailand. This phenomenon can be attributed to several factors. After lengthy marriages, often spanning 10, 20, or even 30 years, men frequently find their identities as husbands and providers stripped away post-divorce. This loss of identity leaves many in their 40s, 50s, or 60s feeling disoriented, questioning who they are and what to do next. The world, and perhaps their partners, have changed significantly over the decades, leading to a disconnect from the values and foundations upon which their marriages were built. Thailand often appeals to these men because it appears to offer a return to traditional values, reminiscent of what they believe their past relationships once were. In Thailand, women are often perceived as having traditional values and prioritizing personality over physical appearance, and potentially, financial status. This perception attracts many men who are seeking a partner that embodies these qualities, which they feel are lacking in the modern West.