
THEY KNOCKED AT 3AM… WTF 😱
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The speaker recounts a recent night out, emphasizing that the common feeling of things not going well – experiencing rejection, feeling awkward, and doubting progress – is a normal part of the process for him as well. He advises against letting these negative thoughts and feelings dictate one's actions, stating they are just thoughts and feelings. Instead, he advocates for a long-term perspective, conducting debriefs every few months to assess progress on metrics like "making out with enough girls" and "pulling" or "closing" them. He notes that currently, his focus is on "pulling" two girls simultaneously and working on his mindset, whereas in the past, he focused on actionable steps like opening a minimum of 20 girls each night, a practice he says has scientific backing related to distribution.
He then details a specific night where he went out with his wingman, referred to as "Big D," who is described as tall and naturally good at making eye contact with attractive women. The speaker, who wishes he were taller, then shifts to describing a specific interaction. Around 2:30 AM, in front of a hookah lounge, he spotted some girls. Although he was initially heading home, he decided to approach a girl from Albania. He noticed the girls were in an awkward situation, standing on the sidewalk with some guys approaching them. He shares a tip about approaching women: avoid staying behind a barrier like a sidewalk or fence that creates separation, as it acts as a form of protection. Instead, he advises moving in front of the woman, explaining that this is a common mistake made by both random guys and those working on their "game." He stresses that it's acceptable to open from behind a barrier but one should aim to move in front of the girl within a few minutes. He illustrates this by suggesting that if opening someone inside a bar from the outside, one should enter the bar to avoid appearing like a "peasant."
He then describes opening the girl from Albania, noting that while he "hooked" her, it wasn't a complete connection. He continued to engage her with what he found to be funny remarks related to their immediate surroundings, comparing them to MMA fighters. The girl was receptive and tested him, which he recorded and found to have gone well. He became physical, initiating hand-holding and finger-locking, and began to "set the pull," playfully suggesting they were going to a champagne party. The girl acknowledged his options and seemed excited to meet a "normal guy" who was fun rather than obnoxious or drunk.
At this point, his wingman joined the interaction, and they decided to "switch the girls," a decision they make based on their preferences. He explains that if he hadn't switched, he would have been content with the other girl, but the dynamic with the Albanian girl was more fun. He also emphasizes the importance of deciding whether sex is likely before switching, as wasting a wingman's time is discouraged. They then proceeded to his place, a "closing machine," where they isolated the girls. He mentions that his wingman, having been through his boot camp, knew what to do. He praises the structured approach of programs like Jeff's, which he finds more comprehensive and organized, leading to great results.
He recounts ending up having sex with one girl, and attempting to have sex with the second after his wingman left. Amusingly, both girls returned later, knocking on his door around 3 AM. He describes the situation as a better alternative to worse scenarios, opening the door to find two attractive girls. He managed to "close" one and was working on the second. He mentions that the girls left early, referencing a comment from "Jeff" about "early birds." He then transitions to promoting his skill set, encouraging interested individuals to DM him or check the schedule for his boot camps, noting that these opportunities are not indefinite as they are aging.
He asserts that his program is the best in the US and beyond, criticizing other offerings as "lame" and not conducive to becoming a "real man" – defined as a leader who increases his value and gets results. He contrasts his approach with others who talk about "game" but may have ego involved and lack genuine results with attractive women in various settings. He stresses that women are not programmed to initiate such interactions, and it is up to men to develop the skill set and courage to do so, rather than waiting for opportunities. He concludes by inviting questions, offering infield audio recordings, and encouraging viewers to subscribe and attend his boot camps.