Sexe, OnlyFans et Thaïlande : ce qu’elle ne devrait pas dire…

Sarah, a content creator for adults, shares her journey and experiences from Reunion Island to Thailand. She discusses her work, personal life, and insights into the adult content industry and living abroad. Sarah began her career in adult content at 20, having previously modeled lingerie and bikinis since turning 18. She started doing nude photoshoots to embrace her body. She was contacted by MYM, a French platform, to be an ambassador for their new venture in Reunion Island. MYM, similar to OnlyFans, allows creators to sell various types of content, not just sexual. People sell recipes, coaching, and other digital products, though it's predominantly known for adult content. Sarah's earnings are 80% of her sales; for example, a video sold at €40 would net her €32. Her family's reaction to her profession was mixed. Her mother was initially concerned, fearing it might lead to prostitution. Her father reacted very negatively. Living on a small island like Reunion, news travels fast. People sent nude photos of Sarah to her mother, highlighting the pervasive nature of judgment and the potential for harassment. Sarah emphasizes the importance of a well-thought-out approach to this career, as it can otherwise lead to depression. She advises against entering the field solely for money, stressing the need for self-acceptance and resilience against criticism. Sarah's current partner, Sandro, was supportive from the beginning, even encouraging her to pursue this path. She mainly creates videos with him and other women, as she is bisexual, but not with other men. She explains that while many creators engage in diverse collaborations, she chooses her boundaries. Initially, she kept all earnings from her content, as it was her body and her work. She later clarified that her subscription price is €19.99 for access to her feed, which includes over 2000 posts. Private content, like sex tapes, costs an additional €40 per video. Regarding content piracy, Sarah notes that while it was initially rampant with users screenshotting and sharing content, it has since calmed down. Being based in France, she can utilize digital tribunals like the CNIL (formerly SKEL) to have pirated content removed. Platforms like MYM also use watermarks with subscriber IDs to trace leaks. She acknowledges that people will always find ways to bypass protections but also points out that even pirated content can inadvertently promote her work. Financially, Sarah's work can generate between €4,000 and €18,000 per month if one works diligently, and potentially more. She mentions that niche content, like foot fetish photos, used to be very lucrative, but now the market is more focused on general sexual content. Sarah and Sandro initially planned to move to Mauritius but opted for Thailand for a more distinct change of scenery. Their initial experience in Thailand was challenging. Following ChatGPT's recommendation for coastal living, they moved to Hua Hin, buying a one-year lease on a villa. However, they found Hua Hin to be boring, comparing it to Madagascar—beautiful but lifeless, especially for younger individuals. They cancelled their lease after just two weeks, losing their initial deposit but managing to get their security deposit back after explaining the construction noise and their dissatisfaction. They then moved to Bangkok, initially renting a small Airbnb apartment for €500 a month. This was too small, especially for Sandro, who needs space for his gaming and Twitch activities. They later found a more suitable pet-friendly condo in Lat Phrao for around €670 a month, which included a gym, pool, and dedicated space for their dog. Living in Bangkok, Sarah highlights the convenience of delivery services for everything, including massages at home for €18. Bringing a dog to Thailand from Reunion (which follows EU standards) requires specific preparations, including a rabies vaccination three months in advance. While a rabies antibody titration test isn't required for entry into Thailand, it is necessary for returning to Reunion. They used a service called PET Relocate to manage the paperwork, preparing four months in advance. Returning to Reunion is simpler, as the dog originated there, avoiding quarantine. Sarah plans to return to Reunion temporarily to focus on her online anti-stress boutique, which sells items like 3D stickers and construction sets. She intends to continue creating adult content and eventually return to Thailand, possibly settling in Pattaya. Pattaya, for Sarah, is incredible, despite some issues with tourists. She praises the kindness of Thai people, contrasting it with the aggression sometimes seen in impoverished areas elsewhere. She notes that in tourist-heavy areas like Pattaya, Thai culture can seem diluted, and there's a noticeable presence of older Western men with much younger Thai women. She has never been approached by Thai men, noting their preference for lighter skin, but has been approached by American men when alone. Regarding the "prank" earlier in the conversation where the hosts pretended to demand Sarah show her body, she explains it was a pre-arranged joke to tease Charles. Sandro was a good actor in feigning discomfort. Sarah believes that while anyone can engage in adult content creation, not everyone possesses the aesthetic sense and professionalism required. She differentiates between filming for content and intimate moments with her partner, emphasizing that videos are staged and designed to be aesthetically pleasing. She and Sandro often incorporate their fantasies into their videos. As a bisexual woman, she also films with other women, sometimes alone, sometimes with Sandro. Sandro also has his own MYM platform. Opening an MYM account requires identity verification, including a photo with an ID card, and while it's a French platform, it's internationally accessible. Sarah's content stands out because she is a mixed-race woman (Antillean and Russian) with curly hair and light eyes, a rarity on these platforms, which are predominantly populated by white American women. She emphasizes her natural approach and her passion for her work, creating monthly "mood boards" for her subscribers. She contrasts her dedicated approach with that of some celebrities who may simply post content for financial gain without much effort, relying on their fame. Sarah doesn't aspire to be a mainstream adult film actress, particularly to avoid her father potentially stumbling upon her content. Her platform's private nature is crucial for her. For marketing, she relies on social media, though she frequently faces account suspensions for mentioning her platform. She has developed discreet strategies, such as using a permanent story on Instagram with a link to her MYM profile, to bypass content moderation rules. Other women creators often approach Sarah for collaborations, drawn by her reputation for quality and safety in the industry. Sarah is very strict about STIs. She and Sandro get tested regularly, and any potential partners are asked to provide their test results or use condoms. She acknowledges the paradox of being passionate about sex while being so cautious about health. When asked about the morality of her profession and prostitution, Sarah expresses a nuanced view. She finds prostitution in France and Reunion sad due to poor conditions and lack of choice. However, in Thailand, she observed instances where women engaged in sex work by choice, finding pleasure and control in their work. She believes that while economic factors often play a role, some women choose this path and even enjoy it. She would prefer her children to pursue a career they love, even adult content, rather than a conventional job that makes them unhappy. She stresses that creators must genuinely love their bodies and sexual expression, and be prepared to face societal judgment. Sarah also collaborates with Jacky & Michel, a French adult content brand, promoting their sex shop products in her videos. She is also involved with swingers clubs in Reunion Island, exploring her interest in libertinage with Sandro. She has had experiences with Sandro and Thai women, noting their open-mindedness. She explains that in her relationship with Sandro, they both desire exploration and adventure to prevent boredom, emphasizing the distinction between sex and love. She believes that humans can love one person but desire sex with others, and this applies to both men and women. She posits that men often seek sex for physical gratification, while women might seek it due to a lack of attention or a desire for novelty in their relationships. Sarah provides her social media handles: Instagram and TikTok as "Plumo Sarah" and MYM as "Island Girl."