REJECTED AT FIRST… BUT WATCH THIS 🔥

The speaker discusses common rejection scenarios and strategies for overcoming them, particularly in social settings like nightclubs. He recounts an experience with a friend who was learning "game" and got rejected. The speaker advised his friend to re-engage by admitting shyness, which surprisingly worked. However, the friend later made the mistake of pulling a phone number instead of aiming for an immediate escalation, like inviting the girls to a party. The speaker emphasizes that most guys give up after one rejection, believing they only have one shot, a notion he strongly disagrees with. He shares a personal anecdote about approaching a girl solo, where his initial attempts were not going well. He deliberately used provocative and "stupid things" to engage her, such as accusing her of being a terrorist or trying to assassinate the president. This led to an argument about countries, and the girl called him a racist. He admits that he made the mistake of becoming too logical in response, which is contrary to what is taught in bootcamps. He constantly has to re-coach himself to avoid being overly logical, especially after a long day. He then shifted his approach, asking her about her life in a non-logical way, and playfully commented on her being "hot" when she said she was a student. This helped him re-engage and enjoy the interaction. He notes that a girl alone is a strong indicator of potential success, prompting him to be more forward. He highlights that he applies the same techniques he teaches to himself. The speaker references Jeff's advice about not judging oneself in the field, agreeing with it while acknowledging the difficulty of controlling all thoughts. He describes his own mental state as an "insane coaching bootcamp," constantly analyzing situations whether for himself or for students. He has learned to bypass self-judgment due to years of experience and thousands of approaches, which has developed his "intuition." This intuition allows him to quickly assess situations, guess ages, and understand peer groups. He reiterates that rejection is not final; one can re-approach a girl multiple times if necessary, as girls don't keep a "counter" of approaches. The key is to be funny and control the vibe, making the interaction enjoyable for both parties. He criticizes "average guys" for using ineffective techniques and encourages seeking professional coaching rather than relying on scattered YouTube information. He further elaborates on the importance of having a good wingman when approaching groups of girls. He explains that girls in a two-set typically want to stay together, making it more effective to pull both girls with a skilled wingman rather than trying to isolate one. He stresses that true skill comes from dedicated training and execution, not just more information. He advises thinking of "game" as a skill set, like any sport where athletes have multiple coaches. He criticizes the mindset that if some individuals don't get results from a program, the program itself is ineffective. Instead, one should look at a large sample size of clients and their results. The speaker addresses a frequently asked question about which city is best for "game." He dismisses this question as indicative of the "wrong mindset," asserting that the techniques work everywhere, regardless of the country or specific city. What truly matters is the population size of the city. Major metropolitan areas (like New York, Los Angeles, San Francisco, San Diego, Austin, or Vegas for a weekend) attract a large number of people, including many "pretty girls" who are out and receptive to cold approaches. These environments offer the best conditions for meeting new people without repercussions. He specifically mentions Las Vegas, noting that its marketing ("what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas") creates an environment where girls are often looking for adventure. He concludes by reiterating the importance of re-approaching and not taking "no" as a final answer, as continued interaction can reveal one's "coolness." He emphasizes that the core principles work universally, provided the city has a large enough population to act as a "funnel" for meeting many girls.