Il a trouvé où passer sa retraite… et ce n’est pas en France

In this video, Katheline hosts Paul, her brother-in-law and Serge's older brother, who is concluding his first three-week vacation in Thailand. Paul shares his impressions of the country, having just experienced it for the first time. Paul, who works as a general secretary in a sub-prefecture in France, specifically near Briançon, explains that various factors like work and home renovations delayed his visit to Thailand despite his brother living there for 13 years. This trip was possible because the conditions finally aligned. He flew with Malaysia Airlines, finding a round-trip ticket for approximately 700 euros per person from Paris to Kuala Lumpur and then to Phuket, which was a relatively honest price compared to other airlines that had caused issues for other family members. Upon arriving in Phuket, Paul's immediate impression was the intense heat upon exiting the airport, which, despite expectations, was more impactful in person. He was also struck by the kindness of the people, noting how helpful they were and how safe he felt, despite the general hustle and bustle of the city. He observed a sense of ease and lack of stress. Addressing the common perception that Phuket is overly crowded, touristy, and not truly representative of Thailand, Paul acknowledges that he came primarily to visit his brother. However, he quickly adapted and didn't find the traffic any worse than in major French cities like Marseille or Paris. He also noted that it was easy to escape the crowds by venturing to nearby islands. Paul even drove a scooter in Phuket, which he found manageable with caution, having prior experience with scooters in France. The trip also included a visit to Bangkok, which Paul found to be an even more significant experience than Phuket due to its immense size and beauty. He regretted only spending three days there, wishing he could have stayed longer to explore more. This sentiment aligns with a common reaction from visitors to Thailand, who often express a desire to return. Another destination was Koh Yao, a small, tranquil island a half-hour boat ride from Phuket. This provided a stark contrast to the energy of Bangkok and Phuket, offering a serene environment for relaxation. Paul appreciated the slower pace and the opportunity to unwind. He mentioned that his primary goal for this trip was to see his brother and experience their living environment, rather than an extensive tour. He confirmed he was reassured by what he saw, finding it "formidable." Serge also took Paul to Patong, a vibrant area known for its nightlife. Paul described it as something to see and experience, bustling with activity and people. He emphasized the sense of safety and good humor, noting that interactions with locals, even those inviting people into bars, were always lighthearted and not aggressive. Paul traveled with his partner, and while Serge joked that Paul should have visited when he was single, Paul enjoyed the romantic aspects of Thailand, such as massages, beaches, and sunset cocktails, calling it an ideal destination for couples. Regarding the budget for their three-week vacation, Paul estimated just over 3000 euros for two people, including flights. He noted they didn't deprive themselves, enjoying various restaurants and multiple massages. He also pointed out that while Phuket is sometimes perceived as expensive, it's possible to eat affordably at smaller local restaurants. Paul was particularly impressed by Thai food, finding it superior to what he had tasted in France. He could easily eat Thai cuisine every day and highlighted Massaman curry as a favorite dish, along with the abundance of seafood options. A significant impression for Paul was the idea of retiring in Thailand. He attributes this desire primarily to the cost of living, which is significantly lower than in France, and the strong sense of safety. He mentioned walking around at midnight with no concerns, a stark contrast to even his village in France. The ease of life, warm weather, and proximity to other fascinating countries like Cambodia, Laos, and Vietnam also contribute to its appeal as a retirement destination. He contemplates spending six to eight months a year there. As a civil servant, he will have to wait until age 64 to retire, but this trip has solidified his objective to live abroad, possibly splitting time between Thailand and Greece, given his Greek heritage. Paul advises anyone considering retirement in Thailand to first visit for a couple of weeks or three to experience it firsthand. He acknowledges that having his brother and sister-in-law guide them made the experience easier. He also recognized that while Phuket is where his brother lives, other areas like Chiang Mai, Hua Hin, Bangkok, or Pattaya might appeal to different expatriates. He plans to explore the north of Thailand on a future visit to see where he might feel most at home. He finds the Thai people very kind and the country well-suited for retirees due to the favorable climate and purchasing power. Regarding the demographic of expatriates, Paul observed that the population in Phuket is quite young, contrary to the stereotype of older retirees. He noted the growing community of younger individuals, including digital nomads, who are relocating to Thailand for longer periods. This suggests a more dynamic and diverse expat community than he initially imagined. Overall, Paul's experience was overwhelmingly positive. He struggled to identify any significant negative aspects, even finding himself adapting to the heat after three weeks. While he acknowledges that being on vacation differs from daily life as a resident, he still perceives a sense of freedom and ease, with shops open late and 24/7. He highlights the feeling of security, citing the ability to leave a scooter with keys and helmets while swimming, something unimaginable in France. His partner shared his enthusiasm and is eager to return. Reflecting on his brother Serge's decision to move to Thailand 13 years ago, Paul admits it was initially a shock, but he now understands and agrees with the choice, realizing Serge had made the right decision. He encourages his 21-year-old son to travel abroad to broaden his horizons and learn English, believing that early travel is crucial for personal development. He would support his son in moving to any foreign country. Paul also dismisses concerns about language barriers for potential visitors, stating that even with limited English, he managed well, especially in tourist areas. He emphasizes the helpfulness and smiling nature of the Thai people, which facilitates communication. In conclusion, Paul's first visit to Thailand was highly positive, and he plans to return within the next two years. He expresses gratitude for the experience and anticipates the culture shock of returning to 7-degree Celsius weather in Paris.