6 Beginner Tips - Vietnamese Women !!

This video provides a concise yet crucial list of ways to avoid sabotaging a relationship with a Vietnamese woman. The host begins by showing his modern, new hotel room in Ho Chi Minh City, which he secured for an introductory price of $19-20 a night on Expedia. After a quick breakfast of bún thịt nướng (pork with noodles and vegetables), the host transitions to the main topic, emphasizing that while individual differences exist, certain cultural norms are prevalent among most Vietnamese women. One significant point is the difference in dating perceptions. In Vietnam, dating is typically viewed as a serious step towards a committed relationship and potential marriage. This contrasts with Western culture, where dating can be more casual, often seen as a way to "see how things go." The host notes that Vietnamese women often perceive foreign men as "players" due to this cultural disparity, leading to mistrust. He mentions a Facebook page where Vietnamese women post pictures of foreign men who they claim have wronged them. To build trust, he advises men to put their dating profiles on hold or delete them after a few dates, especially if they met online. Family plays an incredibly central role in Vietnamese culture. Many Vietnamese women, even into their 30s and 40s, still live with their parents and adhere to curfews. Some may even still be virgins. The host shares an anecdote about dating a 37-year-old who needed her parents' permission to leave the house. Pushing a Vietnamese woman to defy her family's rules will likely result in the family disapproving of you. When a Vietnamese woman invites you to meet her parents, it's a significant milestone. Declining this invitation, unless it's too early in the relationship (e.g., within the first month), can be seen as a sign of not being serious. If she invites you to meet her family too quickly, it might suggest she has ulterior motives, as it's not typical for them to introduce partners so soon. Public displays of affection (PDA) are generally frowned upon in conservative Vietnamese society. Unlike in the West, you won't commonly see public kissing or even frequent hugging. The host points out that many Vietnamese people grow up without hearing "I love you" or receiving hugs from their parents after early childhood. Excessive touching in public, such as placing a hand on her back or holding hands too early in the relationship, can make a Vietnamese woman feel very uncomfortable and potentially end the relationship. Financial stinginess is another deal-breaker. The Western concept of splitting bills 50/50 is not accepted in Vietnam. If you expect a woman to be feminine, you are expected to be her protector and provider, which includes covering expenses, especially in the early stages of dating. The host advises men to ensure they are financially stable before dating in Vietnam, as many Vietnamese women find the idea of splitting bills unacceptable. Loud or aggressive behavior is considered low-class and embarrassing. While navigating a new culture can be frustrating, it's crucial to maintain composure and avoid raising your voice or making a scene, even in annoying situations like someone cutting in line or reckless driving. Mansplaining, particularly regarding Vietnam's culture or government, is also a significant issue. Complaining about the Vietnamese government or suggesting changes is not only unwelcome but can also be dangerous for Vietnamese citizens, potentially leading to imprisonment. Foreigners are generally not appreciated for criticizing the country they are visiting or living in. Finally, the host cautions against misinterpreting gentleness, shyness, or submissiveness as weakness. Vietnamese women can have a "tiger side" and a temper, which, while usually not physical, can be intensely strong. He shares a personal experience of encountering such a personality and deciding not to pursue the relationship further. The video concludes with tips for meeting a Vietnamese family for the first time, likening it to an interview process. It's crucial to respect the family hierarchy by greeting the oldest people in the room first. Knowing basic Vietnamese phrases, especially how to address parents and aunties correctly, is highly beneficial. Bringing gifts is expected and part of gift etiquette. These gifts don't need to be expensive but should not be absent. Recommended gifts include a nice fruit basket, premium tea, Danish biscuits or cakes, and a good cognac like Hennessy for the father, if he drinks. Gifts should be wrapped in red or gold (lucky colors) and avoid black and white (funeral colors). Always give and receive items with both hands, especially when interacting with elders. During dinner, wait for the older people to start eating. It's also customary to accept second servings, even if it's just a few bites, to avoid implying you dislike their food, which can cause "drama." Vietnamese people, despite their small stature, can eat surprisingly large amounts of food.