How to embrace your unfinished future | Colin Judge | TEDxTUDublin

It's easier to discuss the past than to take responsibility for the future, which remains an "unfinished future" for all of us. This unfinished future represents potential we haven't yet realized, often due to hesitation, delay, or fear disguised as logic. The speaker shares personal experiences of holding back, making excuses, and choosing comfort over courage, which cost valuable time. This perspective shifted after hearing others' stories of overcoming obstacles. The speaker realized that withholding helpful lessons or perspectives isn't humility but selfishness, as inaction serves no one. This led to a crucial question: who might have benefited if they had spoken sooner? While the answer is unknown, the question reframed their understanding of responsibility. Acknowledging that none of us are finished, the speaker now embraces their imperfect, unfinished future as purposeful. They aim to reach their highest athletic level and use their platform to inspire others, sharing honest lessons and feelings, even without all the answers. They understand the struggle of self-doubt and the power of small acts of courage. With newfound clarity and willingness to serve, the speaker feels a responsibility to contribute while still growing, not just for themselves but for those who helped them and those who need to hear their story. The focus is now on present and future actions, rather than past regrets. The goal is to share honestly, speak even when not fully ready, and risk making mistakes, believing that if even one person is inspired to take a step or be kinder to themselves, it will be worthwhile. The unfinished future is an opportunity for more learning, giving, and becoming.