HOW TO HANDLE HER FRIENDS 👀

Today's discussion revolves around managing friends and overcoming obstacles, a common question from students. While attracting girls can be learned quickly, the subsequent challenge often lies in dealing with their friends. The primary advice for managing friends is to simply "be normal." Many people overcomplicate this. Instead of engaging in "weird stuff," the key is to be calm and relaxed within the peer group. A significant aspect of pickup is maintaining composure in environments that others might find stressful. If you can be around friends, calm and relaxed, without exhibiting signs of anxiety or personality disorders, you're on the right track. This means being able to chat, relax, and perhaps show basic physical affection with your girl, like having your arm around her, without acting strangely in front of her friends. The goal is to convey a sense of normalcy and comfort. When girls describe a guy as "finally a normal guy," it's a compliment. It means you're not a "creep" or a "weirdo." They're looking for someone who would fit in with their family and friends, someone who isn't anxious or trying too hard to "get something." A "normal guy" in this context is someone comfortable and confident enough to relax, free from anxious twitches or neediness. This relaxed demeanor is the most potent thing you can do, even if it doesn't sound as flashy as other "pickup" techniques. This relaxed approach stems from core confidence. Consider how you would act around a family member, like a sister or an aunt. If you can maintain a similar relaxed state around attractive girls and their friends, you're doing well. Overthinking leads to anxiety and weird behavior. Remember that if a date doesn't work out, you simply return to your normal life, which isn't significantly different from before you met them. Don't try to impress or act fidgety, as this makes people uncomfortable and can be perceived negatively. The second key point is to have interesting things going on in your life that you can invite friends to join. This isn't about grand gestures to impress them, but about having genuine excitement for your own life and knowing the kind of life you want to live. For example, if you're traveling and plan to shoot a video in a park, you can invite them along for a "little adventure." Having cool friends around you also makes it easier to integrate new people into your peer group. This demonstrates leadership and provides a natural way to interact. In summary, the most important steps are: 1. **Be totally calm and relaxed.** Let the girl manage her friends for the most part, especially if she's attracted to you. Your role is to simply be present, chill, and engage in casual conversation. This demonstrates self-esteem and makes others feel relaxed around you. 2. **Show affection publicly.** If you put your arm around your girl and express your affection, she should appreciate it. This signals to her friends that she likes you, which is crucial for their acceptance. If she doesn't like you, these efforts are unlikely to succeed. These two concepts are fundamental to managing friends and the peer group. Pretty girls rarely go out alone; they almost always have friends with them. Therefore, understanding that pickup is a social activity and developing these social skills quickly is essential for attracting the most desirable girls and achieving the best results.