Filipinas Are Using Sex the Wrong Way

This video aims to explain what a Filipina needs to do to ensure a man stays with her after sex, focusing on mature and important aspects of sexual connection and intimacy. The speaker addresses a common scenario where foreigners frequently meet Filipinas for sexual relationships, only to quickly lose interest and move on, leaving Filipinas heartbroken and foreigners endlessly searching for something they can't find. The speaker argues that this isn't the foreigner's fault, as he's biologically wired to act this way, but rather the Filipina's fault for using sex incorrectly. Three major mistakes Filipinas make are highlighted, which, if corrected, can make a significant difference in keeping a foreigner engaged after a sexual encounter. The first mistake is "not building and releasing tension the right way." Typically, on a first date, a Filipina either makes it clear that sex is impossible or that it's a given. Both approaches are detrimental to the "good tension" that should be present. If sex seems impossible, the foreigner may feel defeated and lose interest, or view the Filipina as a challenge, leading to aggressive pursuit and quick disengagement. This is compared to an airplane not gaining enough speed for takeoff, leaving only options to abort or crash. Conversely, if sex feels cheap, inevitable, or happens too quickly, it ruins the tension and removes any challenge, leading the foreigner to quickly think about the next Filipina. This is likened to a plane taking off too quickly, going straight up and then straight down, with the pilot ejecting and seeking a new plane. The correct approach for a first date is to signal the possibility of sex without it being a certainty or requirement. This possibility creates healthy tension, driving the relationship forward like an airplane building speed for takeoff. Crucially, the first date should end without having sex. Having sex on the first date communicates ease and suggests the Filipina has been sexually active with many foreigners, making the experience feel unspecial and leading the man to seek a new, potentially more challenging or equally easy, encounter. The advice is to be "a slot without being a [__]" – meaning, be sweet, innocent, playful, and naughty, confusing his mind and presenting a challenge. This creates a "good kind of stress" or tension, making him see her as both high-class and desirable in a naughty way, driving the relationship forward. This mindset of being a "naughty little slot that isn't a slot" should continue throughout the relationship. The second mistake is "not making your orgasm his number one goal in the bedroom." Filipinas, eager to please, often let men use their bodies to recreate fantasies without real connection. This results in the man receiving a dopamine hit but lacking the vasopressin and oxytocin needed for bonding, leading him to quickly seek the next encounter. The solution is to give him a significant goal: to make the Filipina have the best screaming orgasm of her life. The Filipina needs to coach him directly on how to achieve this, whether through specific techniques, positions, or tools, and to express her excitement as she approaches orgasm. By making her orgasm his primary objective, and guiding him to its successful completion, he experiences not only dopamine but also oxytocin and vasopressin, leading to sexual bonding. This provides him with a challenge and a new mission, preventing him from leaving after sex, as men are wired to solve problems and accomplish goals. The third mistake is "not giving him post-nut relaxation." After sex, a man typically desires sleep, relaxation, food, and a lack of mental effort. However, many Filipinas start overthinking, acting strangely, asking questions, expressing love prematurely, asking for money, or creating pressure, which are the worst things to do. Immediately after sex, a man's brain subconsciously calculates if the "juice is worth the squeeze" for a future with her, a process controlled by chemicals. If the Filipina creates stress or acts weird, his brain will be turned off. Conversely, if she is "cool and the gang," providing relaxation without stress, questions, or pressure—such as rubbing his back, cuddling, getting him a drink, eating with him, watching a movie, or allowing him to rest without expectation—she makes being with her feel easy and desirable. This makes his brain scream that the "juice was worth the squeeze," ensuring he wants to return for more. This means Filipinas should resist their natural tendency to overthink and create drama, instead learning to relax and trust the chemicals in his brain to do their job, as trying to control things will only drive him away. In summary, to make a foreigner stay, a Filipina should: first, be "a slot without being a [__]" on the first date, expertly building and releasing tension without having sex; second, make her orgasm his explicit and sole goal in the bedroom, guiding him to achieve it; and third, provide him with ultimate post-nut relaxation, making him feel like a secure and confident king without stress or pressure. By following these three steps, the speaker guarantees that any foreigner will be sexually bonded and will not leave after sex, as no other Filipina will compare. Foreigners are also advised to seek these qualities in a Filipina to end their endless search and achieve a truly bonded relationship.