
I Have $25 To My Name and Can't See a Way Out of Debt
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The speaker is a 26-year-old living in New York City, facing significant financial challenges. They are currently $14,000-$15,000 in credit card debt, unemployed, and renting a small 184 sq ft apartment for $2,750 a month. Their current ideas for managing the debt include taking out another credit card with a 0% APR balance transfer or considering filing for bankruptcy.
The speaker moved to New York City on a suggestion, having been at "rock bottom" with nowhere else to go. Someone was willing to cover their living expenses for the first six months. This move came after completing their third residential rehab program for drug and alcohol abuse, and they are now 18 months clean and sober, a milestone they are very proud of. They describe a lack of financial literacy from their upbringing and feel overwhelmed by their current situation.
Before becoming unemployed, they worked for a K9 concierge service, walking dogs for someone they met through a 12-step recovery program. They were earning around $60,000 a year in this role. However, their past record makes it difficult to secure other employment, as they are not legally allowed to drive anywhere in the country. This restriction is why they initially came to New York City, relying on its public transportation system.
They have applied for numerous entry-level positions, including at Amazon and UPS, but have not received any call-backs for interviews. They have avoided applying to bars and restaurants due to concerns about relapse, as they were a bartender before getting sober. The only job offer they received recently was a 100% commission-based position for Verizon, which is not suitable given their need for stable income.
The hosts discuss the possibility of the speaker creating their own income through service-oriented work that can be done using public transportation, such as handyman services, yard work, or delivery services using a bike. They suggest that a suburban area might offer more opportunities for such work.
The $2,750 monthly rent was initially partially covered by the speaker's mother, who provided $700 a month for the first six months. That support has ended, and the speaker has been covering the full rent, relying on food stamps. They have sought employment within their 12-step program community but note that it's the beginning of the year, a slower hiring period.
Regarding their upcoming rent payment, the speaker has no solution. The hosts advise against using a credit card and suggest being upfront with the landlord about the inability to pay, exploring options to break the lease, and finding more affordable housing, possibly with roommates.
The hosts also inquire about the speaker's support system. While family initially helped, they are financially "tapped out." The suggestion is not to ask for money, but to seek temporary accommodation from a family member or friend while developing a plan to earn quick income through services like window washing or deck repair. This plan, presented clearly, would be more convincing than simply asking for financial help.
Finally, the hosts emphasize covering the "four walls" first—food, shelter, utilities, and transportation—as cheaply as possible. If credit card payments cannot be made after these essentials are covered, they advise not paying them and suggest contacting GuardianLit for assistance with settlement collection if necessary. They conclude by recommending the Every Dollar app for budgeting.